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Why does the Torah (תורה) permit marrying a captive woman instead of forbidding it? The shiur develops a yesod that war requires aggressive traits that create the yetzer hara for Yefas Toar. Lo dibra Torah k'neged yetzer hara means the Torah gives consequences, not prohibitions, so you can master your decision—feeling like a conqueror of yourself, not repressed.
The shiur opens with a fundamental question: why does the parsha of Yefas Toar represent the Torah (תורה)'s prototype for struggling with the yetzer hara, and what does this have to do with Elul? The Zohar says Yefas Toar is about fighting the yetzer hara, and Chazal connect the month of mourning to Elul. But every mitzvah (מצוה) involves fighting the yetzer hara—why is this case special? Furthermore, how does Rashi (רש"י)'s statement "lo dibra Torah k'neged yetzer hara" (the Torah spoke against the yetzer hara by permitting it) make sense? Does the Torah simply surrender to desire? Rabbi Zweig explains that war requires a soldier to develop traits antithetical to Jewish character: aggression, hostility, courage, and the ability to dominate physically and psychologically. Rashi describes war strategy as cutting off water supplies and terrorizing enemies through noise (like the frogs in Egypt). The same language used for war—conquest, domination, g'vura—parallels the language of intimacy. The Torah's commandment to go to war awakens these aggressive traits, which themselves create the desire for Yefas Toar. Unlike other mitzvos where natural desire conflicts with obligation, here the mitzvah itself incites the yetzer hara.
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Ki Seitzei 21:10-21
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