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If speaking truth is valued, why is lashon hara forbidden even when the information is accurate? The shiur develops that true emes means respecting others' realities and perceptions. Speaking negative truths destroys relationships where those flaws weren't problematic, unnecessarily damaging both listener and subject by forcing awareness of what didn't bother them before.
This profound shiur examines one of the 13 attributes of Divine mercy found in Sefer Michah: "Yirachamenu" - He will again have compassion upon us. The lecture begins by contrasting human and Divine responses to repentance. While humans typically maintain some residual hurt even after forgiveness, God shows increased love to the penitent, as expressed in the teaching that "in the place where penitents stand, the perfectly righteous cannot stand" (b'mokom sheba'alei teshuvah omdim, ein tzadikim gemurim yecholim la'amod). The Chochmah explains this through the mystical understanding of the letter Hey, which shaped like an exedra (open courtyard), represents how the world is open to sin but also provides an opening for return through repentance. The core of the shiur addresses a fundamental question about lashon hara (evil speech): if speaking truth is valued, why is it forbidden to speak truthful but disparaging information about others? The answer lies in understanding the true nature of emes (truth). Every person lives in their own reality and perception of the world. Just as people have different tastes in art, homes, or careers, they also have different ways of relating to other people's character traits and flaws.
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