An exploration of Rabbeinu Yonah's teaching that teshuvah follows different sequences depending on whether the sin was occasional or habitual, comparing this with the Rambam (רמב"ם)'s approach.
This shiur analyzes a fundamental teaching from Rabbeinu Yonah regarding the proper sequence of teshuvah (repentance) based on the nature of one's transgression. The Rav explains that there are two distinct paths to repentance depending on whether the sin was committed occasionally (derech mikreh) or habitually. For occasional sins - where a person doesn't seek out transgression but fell due to a moment of weakness - teshuvah must begin with charatah (regret). This involves genuine remorse accompanied by yirat Shamayim (fear of Heaven), not merely feeling bad about one's actions. The sequence follows 'modeh v'ozev yerucham' - first confession/regret, then abandoning the sin. The person must strengthen themselves with Divine fear so that even if the same temptation returns with equal force, they will resist. For habitual sins - where someone consistently follows an evil path and actively seeks out transgression - the approach must be reversed. Here, one cannot begin with regret because constantly thinking about past sins actually strengthens the attachment to them ('mikhshol avono yosif ohev oto'). Instead, teshuvah must begin with azivat hachet (abandoning the sin) and changing one's mindset and path. Only after establishing a firm resolve for the future can one engage in proper regret about the past. The Rav illustrates this with the mashal of someone holding a sheretz (ritually impure creature) who wishes to immerse in a mikvah - they must first release the sheretz before immersion can be effective. Similarly, one must first 'release' their current attachment to sin before the 'immersion' of confession and regret can purify. The shiur then examines how this teaching appears in the Rambam (רמב"ם)'s Hilchot Teshuvah, noting apparent contradictions between chapters 1 and 2 regarding the proper sequence. The Rav suggests that the distinction lies in understanding that habitual sin involves actively seeking transgression, making kabbalah al he'atid (resolve for the future) not merely a condition of genuine regret, but rather the essential first step of uprooting the seeking behavior itself. For occasional sins, the future resolve serves primarily as a measure of genuine regret, while for habitual sins, it addresses the more pressing current problem of actively pursuing transgression.
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