Absolute Truth and Human Justice: Reconciling Three Core Feelings

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This shiur examines Pirkei Avos 4:7, which states that a judge who withholds himself from judgment removes animosity, theft, and false oaths, while one who rushes to judge is a fool, wicked, and arrogant. Rabbi Zweig addresses the apparent contradiction: if judging is a mitzvah (מצוה), why does the Mishnah (משנה) present it as problematic? The answer lies in understanding that human justice operates in an imperfect world where absolute truth is unattainable due to human fallibility - witnesses can lie, memories are selective, and people convince themselves of false narratives. The shiur explores Yisro's advice to Moshe about establishing a judicial system, explaining that while Moshe could render more accurate legal decisions, the delay caused people to 'wither' - not from waiting, but from the festering animosity and unresolved emotions. Yisro taught that true justice must address not only the monetary issues but also the human feelings involved. Justice requires creating shalom (peace) between people, not just determining right and wrong. The Beis Halevi story illustrates this principle - when a litigant cursed him after losing a case and later died, the Beis Halevi mourned and learned for him like a parent, recognizing that proper justice should have left the person feeling heard and respected. Rashi (רש"י)'s interpretation that judges should pursue compromise reflects this deeper understanding. In our imperfect world, compromise often serves justice better than absolute verdicts because it validates both parties to some degree and preserves relationships. The shiur concludes with practical applications for resolving disputes in families, communities, and personal relationships, emphasizing that resolving feelings is as crucial as resolving issues.