The Nature of Covenant: Creating Oneness Through Cutting

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Rabbi Zweig begins by examining the puzzling Hebrew terminology in Parshas Nitzavim where the Torah (תורה) describes making a covenant (bris) using the verb 'kores' (to cut), which seems contradictory since covenant implies binding while cutting implies separation. Through Rashi (רש"י)'s interpretation, he explains that the ancient covenant ceremony involved creating barriers on both sides, with the covenant partners passing between them, symbolically cutting everyone else out of the exclusive relationship. The rabbi then distinguishes between partnership and covenant, explaining that partnership maintains two separate entities working together, while covenant creates a genuine merger - a oneness where two incomplete halves become a complete whole. This concept transforms our understanding of marriage, which is called a 'bris' in Jewish law. Rather than a partnership of two complete individuals accommodating each other, Jewish marriage represents two people recognizing their incompleteness and merging into one entity. Rashi's interpretation that 'one flesh' refers to children demonstrates this oneness - the child represents the indivisible unity of the parents. The rabbi extends this principle to the Jewish people's covenant in Parshas Nitzavim, which establishes the principle of 'Kol Yisrael areivim ze ba-ze' (all Jews are responsible for one another). This isn't merely social responsibility but reflects genuine oneness - when one Jew needs to perform a mitzvah (מצוה), it becomes every Jew's need. This explains why one can make kiddush for another even after fulfilling their own obligation. The concept also applies to the human-Divine relationship, where humans complete God's desire to express goodness in the world. The rabbi addresses practical implications, explaining why Jewish business relationships often seem more demanding than others - it stems from the healthy recognition of oneness rather than arm's-length partnerships. The seemingly negative aspects (demands, expectations) actually reflect the deep spiritual truth that Jews are genuinely interconnected. He concludes by noting that this oneness, while sometimes creating tension, is preferable to polite distance that would indicate the loss of Jewish peoplehood. The fundamental insight is that covenant requires 'surgery' - each party must cut away their sense of completeness to recognize their need for the other, enabling true merger rather than mere cooperation.