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Why did Moshe avoid striking the water and soil during the plagues—can inanimate objects deserve gratitude? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod: hakaras hatov (recognizing good) is not about repaying a debt but about preserving one's own ability to access the good received. When we deny favors to avoid feeling indebted, we block out the very blessings and relationships we need most.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a puzzling phenomenon from Parshas Vaeira: Moshe Rabbeinu could not strike the water or soil to bring the plagues of blood, frogs, or lice because these elements had once protected him. Rashi (רש"י) explains that the water saved him as an infant, and the soil concealed the Egyptian he killed. The question is glaring: what does it mean to show gratitude to inanimate objects that have no awareness or feelings? Does water gain anything from our appreciation? The shiur argues that the conventional understanding of hakaras hatov—gratitude as repaying a debt—is incomplete. The Hebrew term "hakaras hatov" literally means "recognizing the good," not merely acknowledging or repaying it. The opposite, "kofui tov," means to cover up or block out the good, derived from the root meaning to conceal (like overturning a bowl over an object). The real tragedy of ingratitude is not that the benefactor loses something, but that the recipient loses access to the very good that was given. When we deny a favor in our minds to avoid feeling indebted or inadequate, we effectively erase that benefit from our internal reality. If you convince yourself you never received love, support, or education, you cannot access those gifts—even if objectively they were given.
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Parshas Vaeira
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