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Why does the yetzer hara seem present in the womb if it only comes at birth? The shiur identifies two distinct types: one driven by pleasure that exists from birth, and Satan-type rebellion against control that emerges when authority feels arbitrary. Understanding this distinction prevents triggering self-destructive behaviors in chinuch by maintaining respect while setting boundaries.
Rabbi Zweig begins by analyzing Koheles 4:13, which states 'Better is a young child who is wise than a king who is old and foolish.' Rashi (רש"י) explains this refers to the yetzer tov (good inclination) as the young child, coming at age 13, versus the yetzer hara (evil inclination) as the old king, present from birth. This raises a fundamental question: if the yetzer hara only comes at birth and yetzer tov at 13, how do we understand the stories of Yaakov and Esav fighting in the womb, or the Gemara (גמרא) in Yoma about pregnant women on Yom Kippur whose unborn children displayed righteous or wicked tendencies? The resolution comes through examining Rashi's careful language in describing chukim (divine decrees). When discussing forbidden foods like pork, Rashi says the yetzer hara and gentiles 'meshivin' (question) us - they ask why we abstain from seemingly pleasant things. However, regarding the red heifer (parah adumah), Rashi uses different terminology: Satan and gentiles 'monin' (put down/mock) the Jews for following illogical laws where the same ashes purify one person while defiling the person who sprinkles them.
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