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Why does the Torah (תורה) permit taking a captive woman (yefas toar) during war? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction between two types of relationships: giving/receiving versus conquest/domination. True gevurah means conquering one's own needs rather than imposing oneself on others.
This in-depth shiur examines the enigmatic parsha of yefas toar (the beautiful captive woman) and its connection to the subsequent parshios of inheritance laws and the rebellious son (ben sorer umoreh). Rabbi Zweig addresses the fundamental question of why the Torah (תורה) permits taking a captive woman during war, seemingly contradicting the principle that one must control the yetzer hara rather than accommodate it. The shiur establishes a crucial distinction between two types of relationships. Before Adam's sin, marriage was based on mutual giving and receiving between equals. After the sin, when the woman ate from the Tree of Knowledge and gave to Adam not out of love but from a desire to control him, the dynamic changed to "v'hu yimshal bach" (he shall rule over her). This introduced an element of conquest and domination into marriage.
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