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How can sinas chinam lead someone to harm himself even more than his enemy? The shiur develops that sinas chinam requires self-hatred first — only someone alienated from himself will damage himself to hurt others. The Bar Kamtsa host and R. Zecharya ben Avkulas both exhibited this self-alienation, showing that proper anava restores love of both self and others.
Ultimate cause of churban Bayis Shaini was sinas chinam. S"ch is hatred of others to point that you'll harm yourself even more in order to hurt them. One can only reach that point if he hates himself as well - and so doesn't care about harming himself. Host of Bar Kamtsa exhibited middos of self-alienation and s"ch, as well as not being ro'eh es ha'nolad (i.e. not caring about consq's). More subtle version of same chisaron appeared in R. Zecharya ben Avkulas: false anava alienated him from himself to extent he didn't trust his own judgment. Proper anava restores love of self and others.
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