Ultimate cause of churban Bayis Shaini was sinas chinam. S"ch is hatred of others to point that you'll harm yourself even more in order to hurt them. One can only reach that point if he hates himself as well - and so doesn't care about harming himself. Host of Bar Kamtsa exhibited middos of self-alienation and s"ch, as well as not being ro'eh es ha'nolad (i.e. not caring about consq's). More subtle version of same chisaron appeared in R. Zecharya ben Avkulas: false anava alienated him from himself to extent he didn't trust his own judgment. Proper anava restores love of self and others.
Rabbi Zweig challenges Freudian psychology by arguing that the basic human drive is not pleasure-seeking but rather the painful awareness of non-existence, and explains how only a relationship with God can provide the feeling of true existence and simcha.
An exploration of the deeper meaning of 'amirah' (saying) as empowering others by recognizing their uniqueness and building meaningful relationships through authentic, individualized communication.
