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How can mourning (aveilus) be suspended for a wedding when the first day is biblically mandated? The Ran explains that aveilus is a positive commandment to display mourning, which sages can suspend through passive non-action (shev v'al ta'aseh). Joy (simcha) remains forbidden as an active prohibition.
The shiur analyzes a fundamental question in the laws of mourning: if the first day of mourning (aveilus) is a biblical obligation (de'oraisa), how can the sages permit its suspension for urgent matters like completing a wedding? The Ran offers a sophisticated resolution based on the nature of the mourning obligation itself. The Ran argues that aveilus is fundamentally a positive commandment (mitzvah (מצוה) asei) to demonstrate one's status as a mourner through specific behaviors - refraining from washing, shaving, wearing shoes, and sitting on chairs. Crucially, these are not prohibitions against grooming activities, but rather obligations to present oneself in an unkempt state that visibly displays mourning. This positive obligation can be suspended by the sages through shev v'al ta'aseh (passive non-action) - they can release someone from the duty to display mourning.
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