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What exactly do birchas chasanim accomplish at erusin, and why are they permitted if an arusah remains forbidden to her husband? The shiur develops the tension between Rashi (רש"י)'s position that the bracha removes the issur yichud and the Rambam (רמב"ם)'s view that she retains arusah status. This leads to fundamental questions about whether chuppah is d'oraisa or d'rabanan.
This shiur analyzes Gemara (גמרא) Kesubos 8a regarding birchas chasanim (wedding blessings) and their relationship to the prohibition of yichud with an arusah (betrothed woman). The primary tension emerges from comparing different authorities' understanding of what these blessings accomplish. Rashi (רש"י)'s position presents the first approach: he maintains that birchas chasanim at erusin remove the rabbinic prohibition of yichud with an arusah. According to Rashi, an arusah has the same yichud restrictions as a single woman (panuyah), and these restrictions can only be lifted through either chuppah or the blessing. The Gemara's discussion of Yehuda, where they said the blessing because 'she was designated for him (mis'yachad imah),' supports this view that the blessing itself has halachic efficacy.
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Kesubos 8a
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