An exploration of the principle "God seeks out the pursued" from Koheles, teaching that even when we're right in a dispute, we must focus on self-defense rather than punishment or victory.
This shiur examines a profound verse from Koheles 3:15: "Elokim yevakesh es hanirdaf" - God seeks out the pursued. Rabbi Zweig begins with Rashi (רש"י)'s straightforward interpretation that God protects the righteous victim (like Yaakov) against the wicked pursuer (like Eisav). However, the Midrash in Parshas Emor presents a startling extension: even if a righteous person pursues a wicked one, God will still protect the victim - even the wicked victim. To understand this counterintuitive principle, the rabbi analyzes Yisro's declaration after witnessing the Exodus miracles: "Now I know that God is greater than all gods, for in the very thing they plotted, He retaliated against them." Targum Onkelos unusually adds that there are no other gods besides Him. Rabbi Zweig explains that midah k'neged midah (measure for measure) doesn't mean tit-for-tat revenge, but rather a perfectly measured, limited response. God could have tortured all Egyptians severely, but instead gave each exactly what they deserved - no more, no less. This measured response proves God cares about both victim and perpetrator, indicating He is the God of all, with no other gods existing. The fundamental principle emerges: human beings have no right to punish anyone - only God has that authority. Humans are granted only one right: self-defense. This includes preemptive defense when necessary (as in halachos of protecting one's home from intruders), but once the threat passes, pursuit becomes forbidden. The moment we become the aggressor, we usurp God's role as judge and will face consequences ourselves. Rabbi Zweig illustrates this with the Talmudic story of Rabbi Meir, who wanted to pray for the destruction of local troublemakers. His wise wife corrected him, saying he should pray for their repentance instead - and indeed, they did improve. This teaches that victims have a unique power to pray for their persecutors' betterment, since God actively protects victims. The practical application is profound: in disputes - whether in marriage, family, or community - the goal should never be to win or punish, but only to achieve safety and protection. Most conflicts naturally blow over, but the desire to "win" and achieve victory perpetuates and escalates disputes unnecessarily. This is especially destructive in marriage, where the need to win can destroy an otherwise good relationship. Parents have authority to discipline children for educational purposes, but even then must give measured responses motivated by love and guidance, not anger or the desire to punish.
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Koheles 3:15
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