Why would Naomi suggest that thirty-something widows wait fifteen years to marry infant boys? The key is understanding that yibum isn't about companionship but purely about perpetuating a deceased husband's name. Rus and Orpah show extraordinary devotion by willingly sacrificing personal happiness for functional marriages that would preserve their husbands' legacies.
Rabbi Zweig begins by examining the emotional departure scene where Naomi attempts to send away her daughters-in-law after her sons' deaths. He analyzes the phrase "they raised their voice and cried," distinguishing between the 'call' (kol) as the expression of one's soul - the breath of life itself - and crying as the emotional response. He references the Torah (תורה)'s description of Adam and Chavah hearing God's 'kol' in Gan Eden, suggesting they heard God's breathing or presence before He spoke to them. The shiur then focuses on Naomi's seemingly puzzling argument to her daughters-in-law: "Do I have children in my womb who could be husbands for you?" Rabbi Zweig questions why two women in their thirties would wait fifteen years for infant boys to grow up and marry them - a scenario that appears to make no practical sense as a marriage relationship.
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