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What drives people to speak lashon hara despite knowing it's wrong? The shiur develops a yesod that lashon hara functions as a painkiller for existential pain - the deep human anxiety about mortality and meaninglessness. True healing comes not from avoiding the painkiller but channeling that underlying pain toward Torah (תורה) study and mitzvos, which provide genuine connection to eternal existence.
Rabbi Zweig presents a groundbreaking psychological insight into the nature of lashon hara based on a Midrash Rabbah and Gemara (גמרא) in Avodah Zarah 19b. The shiur begins with the story of a traveling salesman offering "life" who quotes the verse "Who is the person who desires life? Guard your tongue from evil and speak no falsehood." The question posed is: what did Rabbi Yanai learn from this encounter that he hadn't understood before? The fundamental thesis challenges conventional psychology by arguing that the primary human drive is not pleasure-seeking but existence-seeking. Rabbi Zweig explains that God cannot create eternal beings - only God is truly eternal. When humans are created, they exist but with ephemeral existence, creating tremendous existential pain from knowing they are "going out of business." This pain of non-existence is the deepest human suffering.
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