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Why does a bachur who marries an almanah have only three days of simcha but seven days of sheva brachos? The Rambam (רמב"ם) establishes two separate halachos: Takanas Moshe requires seven days of mishta (celebration) for the groom, while Takanas Chachamim gives the bride a right to three or seven days of simcha (undivided attention) depending on her status.
This shiur addresses fundamental contradictions in the Rambam (רמב"ם)'s rulings about wedding celebrations for different marriage combinations. In Hilchos Ishus, the Rambam states that a bachur who marries an almanah has only three days of simcha, yet in Hilchos Brachos, he rules that such a couple makes sheva brachos for seven days. The Rishonim, particularly the Ran, ask how one can make brachos when there is no obligation of mishta. Rabbi Zweig resolves this by distinguishing between two entirely separate halachos. First, there is Takanas Moshe Rabbeinu establishing shivas yemei hamishta - a seven-day celebration obligation that applies to every groom regardless of circumstances. This is the groom's personal halacha (הלכה) to celebrate, similar to the seven-day mourning period for the deceased. Second, there is Takanas Chachamim giving Bnos Yisrael a right to the groom's undivided attention during simcha - this varies based on the bride's status (seven days for a besulah, three days for a be'ulah).
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Kesubos 7a-7b
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