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What does Sinas Chinam—"baseless hatred"—really mean? The shiur argues it means hating the *person* when only the *act* deserves rejection. True mussar requires distinguishing between evil deeds (which we must reject) and the inherently good soul within every Jew. Purim (פורים)'s mandate to increase joy is the antidote: embracing people for their good deeds while firmly rejecting bad behavior without personal rejection.
Rabbi Zweig begins by noting that the Gemara (גמרא) establishes a parallel: just as we decrease joy when Av enters, we increase joy when Adar enters. He asks why the Talmud (תלמוד) frames the obligation to be happy in Adar through the negative lens of mourning in Av, rather than stating the positive directly. This linguistic structure, he suggests, hints at a deep conceptual connection between the two months and the two emotional responses they demand. The Torah (תורה) states that the Jewish people were exiled from Israel "tachas asher lo avadta es Hashem (ה׳) Elokecha b'simcha u'v'tuv levav"—because we did not serve God with joy and goodness of heart, even though we had everything. Rabbi Zweig asks: why weren't the Jews happy? The Kotzker Rebbe offers a provocative reading—perhaps it means "you didn't serve God, and yet you were still happy," rejoicing in abandoning divine service. But the plain meaning is that we failed to serve God with joy, and this lecture explores the roots of that failure.
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Talmud Bavli Pesachim (unloading enemy's animal), Bava Metzia (loading enemy's animal), Tosafos; Devarim (tachas asher lo avadta); Mishlei (chosech shivto sonei beno); Tehillim (ach tov vachesed yirdefuni)
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