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When does marriage become a public contract requiring ten people? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction between Hilchos Ishus and Hilchos Brachos regarding Sheva Brachos. Under the chuppah, brachos are part of creating the nisuin itself, while the week-long brachos are merely publicizing an already-established relationship.
This shiur analyzes the core disagreement between Rabbeinu Hai Gaon and the Rambam (רמב"ם) regarding when marriage transitions from a private contract to a public one. The Rambam holds that the mitzvah (מצוה) of kiddushin is not simply to be mekadesh a woman, but rather that intimacy between husband and wife should occur within the context of kiddushin and ketubah. This means kiddushin represents a commitment to permanent marriage (nisuin), not just a temporary engagement. Rabbeinu Hai Gaon argues that since kiddushin involves committing to nisuin, the public aspect of marriage begins at erusin, requiring ten people for Birchas Erusin. The Rambam disagrees, holding that the public contract only begins when the couple actually lives together at nisuin. Rabbi Shmuel HaNagid challenges Rabbeinu Hai Gaon's position with two questions: where is this requirement sourced, and if ten people are needed for erusin, why does the Gemara (גמרא) only mention requiring two witnesses?
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Kesubos 7b
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Why does the Gemara present a kal v'chomer for chuppah making kiddushin based on kesef not being maichel b'terumah, only to reject it? The shiur reveals that even the rejected kal v'chomer establishes a fundamental yesod: kiddushin is a kinyan for ishus (marital relationship), not merely a kinyan in hilchos kinyanim. The second kal v'chomer—from chuppah being gomeres—raises Tosafos's famous question.
Is the kesef used in kiddushin a true kinyan (acquisition), or merely a symbolic means of establishing marriage? The shiur analyzes multiple interpretations of the Gemara's derivation from ki yikach ki'ach mi'Sayeffron, exploring whether marriage constitutes ownership, and develops three fundamental approaches: (1) The Gemara proves ishus is a kinyan, (2) ishus is not a kinyan but uses kinyan-like means, or (3) ishus is a kinyan but the kesef may not be a ma'aseh kinyan. The Rambam's position—calling kesef "midivrei sofrim"—is explained as distinguishing between cross-referencing concepts versus borrowing terminology.
Why does the Mishna alternate between the language of "kinyan" (acquisition) and "kiddushin" (sanctification) when describing marriage? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction: marriage has two separate aspects—a kinyan dimension (ownership) and a kedusha dimension (sanctified relationship). Either aspect can initiate the bond, and understanding this dual nature resolves multiple textual and halachic questions throughout the sugya.
Does kiddushei shetar require a shevah pruta? The Ran presents two approaches to the Rif's position. The shiur develops the Ran's second pshat that shetar kiddushin functions as a hachnah (exchange) rather than a mere kinyan nesina. This reading has profound implications for isuri hana'ah, mechubar, and the relationship between kesef and shetar.
