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When does marriage become a public contract requiring ten people? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction between Hilchos Ishus and Hilchos Brachos regarding Sheva Brachos. Under the chuppah, brachos are part of creating the nisuin itself, while the week-long brachos are merely publicizing an already-established relationship.
This shiur analyzes the core disagreement between Rabbeinu Hai Gaon and the Rambam (רמב"ם) regarding when marriage transitions from a private contract to a public one. The Rambam holds that the mitzvah (מצוה) of kiddushin is not simply to be mekadesh a woman, but rather that intimacy between husband and wife should occur within the context of kiddushin and ketubah. This means kiddushin represents a commitment to permanent marriage (nisuin), not just a temporary engagement. Rabbeinu Hai Gaon argues that since kiddushin involves committing to nisuin, the public aspect of marriage begins at erusin, requiring ten people for Birchas Erusin. The Rambam disagrees, holding that the public contract only begins when the couple actually lives together at nisuin. Rabbi Shmuel HaNagid challenges Rabbeinu Hai Gaon's position with two questions: where is this requirement sourced, and if ten people are needed for erusin, why does the Gemara (גמרא) only mention requiring two witnesses?
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Why does halacha forbid entering dangerous places if everything happens by Divine decree? The shiur examines the debate between Rashi and Tosfos on traveling at night, developing a fundamental distinction: Rashi holds one must avoid even deserved punishments that Hashem delays through mercy, while Tosfos holds the prohibition addresses self-inflicted harm through free will. This framework reveals how people rationalize self-destructive behavior as "hashgacha."
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Kesubos 7b
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