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Why would the Gemara (גמרא) permit women to transgress rather than die if Yeharig V'Lo Yaavor applies to adultery? Rabbeinu Tam argues that a married Jewish woman with a non-Jewish man isn't considered gilui arayos but rather like bestiality. This creates shocking implications about Torah (תורה) prohibitions and the nature of passive sin.
The shiur analyzes a fundamental question in Kesubos 3b regarding the Gemara (גמרא)'s ruling that women being threatened with death may transgress rather than be killed. Tosfos asks how this could be permitted given the principle of Yeharig V'Lo Yaavor (be killed rather than transgress) that applies to the three cardinal sins including adultery. Rabbeinu Tam's revolutionary answer distinguishes between a married Jewish woman living with a Jewish man versus a non-Jewish man. He argues that with a non-Jew, it's not considered gilui arayos (sexual impropriety) at all, but rather like bestiality - meaning there's no Torah (תורה) prohibition of adultery. This is supported by the Gemara's question about Esther living with Achashverosh, which assumes it was problematic because it was public (creating a chillul Hashem (ה׳) issue), not because of inherent adultery.
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Kesubos 3b
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