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Why did Lot seemingly do more chesed (חסד) than Avrohom—offering a feast in his home and risking his life—yet Avrohom is called the paragon of chesed? The shiur develops a yesod that chesed rooted in love for the recipient (Avrohom) requires sensitivity to avoid overwhelming them, while chesed rooted in self-aggrandizement (Lot) leads to smothering displays that make recipients uncomfortable.
Rabbi Zweig analyzes the contrasting approaches to chesed (חסד) of Avrohom and Lot in Parshas Vayeira. On a superficial reading, Lot appears to do more: he prostrates himself further, invites guests into his home to sleep over, makes a full feast (mishteh), and risks his life in Sedom—all seemingly greater than Avrohom's outdoor hospitality under a tree. Yet Avrohom is celebrated as the father of chesed while Lot is not. The key distinction lies in motivation and sensitivity. The shiur first explores the Gemara (גמרא)'s question about why Hashem (ה׳) criticized Sarah's laughter (vayitzchak) but not Avrohom's when told they would have a child. The word tzachak encompasses both joy at something incredible and skepticism that it's too good to be true—an admixture of "I want it to be true" and "it can't be true." Avrohom, whose midah is chesed rooted in understanding that Hashem acts out of love (rachamim), accepts the gift joyfully because receiving from One who loves you is itself a form of giving back. Sarah, whose midah is din (justice/entitlement), cannot accept a gift so beyond what she deserves, knowing she would be uncomfortable receiving it.
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