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Why does the Torah (תורה) permit a soldier to marry a beautiful captive when we're usually commanded to control our desires? The shiur explains that Yefas Toar represents the ultimate connection to idolatry (avodah zarah)—pure illusion. The Torah permits it precisely to strip away its allure: by saying 'you may,' it removes the forbidden attraction and allows us to see the emptiness through letzanus (mockery of illusion). This recapturing of reality is the spiritual battle of Elul, fought through Torah study.
This shiur explores two seemingly unrelated topics at opposite ends of Parshas Ki Seitzei—Yefas Toar (the beautiful captive) and the commandment to destroy Amalek—and reveals a profound unifying thread connecting them both to the struggle between reality and illusion that defines human existence after the sin of Adam. Rabbi Zweig begins by addressing a fundamental theological problem: the Torah (תורה) permits a soldier to marry a non-Jewish captive woman because of the yetzer hara. This appears to violate basic Jewish principles. If a person can control himself, he's obligated to; if he genuinely cannot, then it's not yetzer hara but simple biological compulsion. Either way, the Torah's permission makes no sense. Furthermore, Chazal's allegorical interpretations—that Yefas Toar represents the neshamah, that shaving her head and growing her nails corrects the original sin, that mourning for a month alludes to Elul—seem disconnected from the simple meaning of the text.
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