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Why were three major Jewish cities destroyed despite their high levels of righteousness and scholarship? The shiur explains that true wisdom (chochmah) isn't intelligence but the moral quality of seeing consequences - understanding how others perceive our actions. The lack of this perspective led to the destruction.
Rabbi Zweig analyzes the Talmud (תלמוד) in Gittin which describes three stories about the destruction of Jerusalem, Tur Maaka, and Betar. Each city was destroyed after its inhabitants acted in ways that provoked Roman retaliation - evicting an enemy from a party (leading to false accusations of rebellion), fighting Roman soldiers who stole wedding fowl, and attacking guards who uprooted ceremonial trees. The Talmud states these stories share a common thread: the people were not "ro'eh hanolad" (seeing consequences). Rashi (רש"י) explains this means they lacked wisdom by not considering consequences, but Rabbi Zweig questions how Jews could be accused of such obvious stupidity. He develops that the real issue wasn't intellectual but moral. Through analysis of Pirkei Avos, he shows that "seeing consequences" means understanding how others perceive our actions, not just having good reasons for our behavior.
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Gittin 55b-57a
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