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Why does material success often lead to unhappiness rather than joy? The shiur explains that familiarity breeds entitlement, not gratitude - we stop appreciating what we have and just get angry when we don't get more. Purim (פורים)'s matanos l'evyonim breaks this cycle by giving people the experience of receiving undeserved gifts, which restores genuine simcha.
Whatever we get used to we no longer appreciate and feel simcha about. We just become angered if we don't get it. We also become the center of our universe - and not of G-d's - and we want to stay like that. Haman couldn't stand Mordechai's refusal though he had everything. He used lots to give himself feeling of getting luck for free. We give gifts to give feeling to others of receiving what's undeserved. Then they can appreciate and have true simcha.
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