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37 shiurim · Aggadita · 8 dafim covered
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Why must a master treat his Hebrew servant as an equal in food, drink, and lodging—even better than his own parents? The Rambam frames this as tikkun hamiddos for the master, preventing arrogance from owning another person. This explains why the servant cannot waive these rights—they exist for the master's spiritual development, not the servant's material benefit.
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Why does the Gemara bring proof for kibud av v'em from Dama ben Nisina, a gentile, when Jews compare this mitzvah to honoring Heaven itself? The shiur distinguishes between gentile kibud av v'em, motivated by hakaras hatov seeking to 'pay back' parents and achieve independence, versus the Jewish approach based on recognizing parents' inherently higher spiritual status closer to Sinai and Hashem.
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What exactly is chanifa (flattery), and why does the Gemara connect it to poverty? The shiur develops a chiddush that chanifa isn't lying but performing all the right actions while withholding your authentic self. This reframes poverty as the psychological inability to give - whether money or oneself - explaining why flatterers can't receive divine presence despite technically correct behavior.
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Why does the punishment for selling shemittah produce escalate even after the person no longer owns fields? The shiur explains that ra ayin means begrudging others what we ourselves don't need, not mere greed for money. Slavery teaches the opposite middah - total dependence on others rather than demanding recognition as the source of everything.
Why must a master treat his Hebrew slave better than himself, giving the slave superior food and lodging? The shiur reveals that "ki tov lo imach" protects the master's soul from arrogance, not the slave's comfort. Years of wielding power over another person breeds dangerous feelings of superiority that this law systematically counteracts.
Why does the Gemara cite Dama ben Nesina, a gentile, as the prime example of honoring parents? The shiur distinguishes between obligation-based respect (paying off a debt to parents) versus recognition-based respect (seeing parents as inherently greater). His reward of finding a parah adumah connects to the yesod that both mitzvos teach about life's inherent vitality versus death's external contamination.
How could Bavel contain ninety percent of the world's poverty, and what connects poverty to chanifa? The shiur redefines both poverty and flattery: poverty means inability to give (not lack of money), while chanifa means doing all the right actions while withholding yourself emotionally. This psychological 'poverty' - the compulsive need to maintain control rather than genuinely give oneself in relationships - explains both Bavel's condition and why flatterers cannot connect to Hashem.
Why must a master treat his Hebrew servant equal to or better than himself, even better than his own parents? The shiur argues that these laws primarily protect the master from developing arrogance rather than establishing servant rights. The principle 'ki tov lo imach' serves as a Torah corrective against the spiritual corruption that comes from wielding power over others.
